A company that's sole selling point is discretion has leaked info after a hack? i'll resist the urge to laugh and poke fun as it is a fairly serious topic and something that effects more people then i can even imagine but i am ever so slightly happy with the fact S does not and never has used that particular site for "man hunting"
After reading the article about it though it did get me thinking about the business of hook up apps and adult dating sites, it must be an absolute gold mine!
You have the domain name, the servers, an office some personal and some general computery equipment, throw in some cheap advertising and guys join it...bloody sore i never thought of it before they became big myself! then again its always easy to look at an idea someone has made work and say you could of done the same too
Other our years of swinging and the last year or so of S exploring her sexuality solo we have used some amazing sites plus a lot of utter tripe, i wonder what it is that makes a winning combo, for me i always liked a site called fabswingers as it was simple, clear, easy to use and even easier to spot fakes/timewasters using it
The lovely wife on the other hand seems to be slightly transfixed on something called tinder if you know it? many a time i have noticed her glued to the screen with a cheeky smile on her face, either down to some horse penis with legs attached or more often then not a man who can actually flirt with her in a way her buttons are being pressed while he is miles and miles away (S tries not to meet anyone with 20 miles for privacy reasons, but exceptions can be made)
Now im in no way saying im jealous or anything along those lines. if its the source she prefers then i can't praise it enough but what is so special about that particular app
Ease of use?
Discretion?
Wide selection of choice?
i spend a while today trying to figure it out while trying to take my mind off S and he rinterview, it worked as i got so deep into thought id barely worried about her, once she got home and told me about her day and then we did the things parents have to do.......about 10pm we both got into bed and her phone beeped, knowing it was tinder i put my magazine down and asked why she liked it so much
all i got in reply was a flirty look and a whisper of "makes me feel slutty"
I guess i do over think things lol
C, pointless post but felt good typing as i think i.e random with no clear path lol
"makes me feel slutty" Oh, that's the line of the day for me.
ReplyDeleteHey again Jon Jonz, hope your well?
DeleteS seems to like being hounded by late teens early 20's guys with which tinder seems to be full of
She will also freely admit to having no intention of meeting some guys but likes the attention and ego boost that comes with it from someone her junior seeking her out and flirting with her........that is not to say none get lucky though
She does seem to like innocent little lambs who are home form uni etc over summer and bored at there parents home....poor things don't stand a chance
Women right?
C
Doing very well. Getting a little break at work, and having fun reading over your blog.
ReplyDeleteThinking back to my college days, I would have been completely flummoxed by some older woman's attention: flattered and baffled and absolutely filled with horniness.
And S's ego boosts seem to make my cock pretty happy too.
College/uni guys over here do seem shocked at times, S is a very good looking woman! I am not just saying that due to being biased but she does turn heads
DeleteA lot think shes fake, the rude ones she likes to prove to she is real then block them lol
She is currently thinking about getting some work done but i am voting against it, forgetting cuckolding but as this is a serious topic...........what difference does my opinion make to her? shes a woman so sod all if she has made her mind up :(
Comment from S "if its small its not a cock but a penis" don't shoot the messenger Jon
C
Fair enough. "Penis" it is.
DeleteI was on Ashley Madison years ago, and I am concerned about my (supposedly deleted) pictures showing up from the hack and related to the site. I found a one or two good matches and a few "ok" matches on there, but it was just too much work. After an initial avalanche of like 100 messages a day for about a week, I would get 20 to 30 a day. So as you can imagine, sorting though that many messages just to meet a few guys who seemed to fit - it just wasn't worth it.
ReplyDeleteI've tried Tinder. It's fun, first off. It's just fun, sort of addicting, but I certainly would not call it discreet.
I don't do any online dating anymore. Swing clubs work best for me. Being able to watch someone from across a room provides a wealth of information that you just can't get from text.
S has said at first she gets so many messages she will just delete them all and wait till they die down in number, i guess guys can get carried away, she also tells me of lovely messages that simply say "hello" or the life
DeleteThe huge amount of effort they put in does make me hope they had an early night to recover
My wife does seem to agree with your final comment in part anyway, she will go on the prowl and look at body language etc but for her/us the swing clubs around us are......ahem......less then lovely shall i say
C, yet again a big fan
That's a shame about the swing clubs near you. Many of the swing clubs in the southeastern United States are exceptional, and the clientele are very friendly and even more attractive.
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